SO WHAT HAPPENS NOW? GUIDE
A guide to help families navigate the devastating loss of a child.
ABOUT THE GUIDE
After a child dies, families are left facing a blur of decisions, paperwork, and overwhelming grief. Most parents have no idea what to do next and no one hands them a roadmap.
The So What Happens Now? Guide walks families and their support networks through the practical steps that follow the death of a child. From hospital processes and coronial matters to funeral planning and beyond. It covers what most people don't know to ask, and what nobody tells you. Because no family should have to search for this information when they can barely function.
WHAT’S INSIDE THE GUIDE
Practical guidance when you need them most.
1. Navigating What Comes Next
Understanding initial processes, choosing a funeral home or director, things to consider following the loss of a child, templates for communicating with family, friends and workplace, accessing your child's records, and the hospital feedback process.
2. Planning a Special Day
Things to consider when planning a memorial or funeral, keepsake and memorialisation ideas, and information for friends and family.
3. Understanding Your Grief
Getting a Mental Health Treatment Plan, ongoing support options, grief resources, and support for siblings and other children.
4. Information for Friends and Family
Ways to support a loved one through loss, and what to say — and what not to say.
5. About This Resource Guide
The Aliyah Mae Foundation, our story, contributors, and contact information.
CRISIS SUPPORT
Please note, The Aliyah Mae Foundation does not offer crisis support services.
If you or someone you love is in a crisis situation, please reach out to one of the following 24/7 services:
Triple Zero — 000
Lifeline — 13 11 14
Mental Health Emergency Response Line (MHERL)
Metro: 1300 555 788
Peel region: 1800 676 822